Transcript
WEBVTT
00:00:06.608 --> 00:00:08.871
and welcome back to pastor plex podcast.
00:00:08.871 --> 00:00:14.865
I'm your host, pastor plec, and joining me in studio is none other than muhammad ali.
00:00:14.865 --> 00:00:16.489
Hello, pastor mo.
00:00:16.489 --> 00:00:23.504
It preached our sermon on sunday and then also from the east side, pastor hollandgg, how are we doing?
00:00:23.905 --> 00:00:24.326
Doing great.
00:00:24.326 --> 00:00:24.786
Thanks, Chris.
00:00:25.086 --> 00:00:31.734
Well, you know, awesome experience this past Sunday we got into Song of Solomon, chapter 5.
00:00:31.734 --> 00:00:38.545
And the first couple verses talked about really the previous week.
00:00:38.545 --> 00:00:52.326
It ended with eat, friends, drink and be drunk with love, but then things after the honeymoon experience of a lot of sexual intimacy then jumps into verse two.
00:00:52.326 --> 00:00:54.691
Take it away from there, mo.
00:00:54.691 --> 00:00:59.883
What did you experience or what do you think is going on in this story?
00:00:59.883 --> 00:01:04.805
In fact, I have a question oriented around verses 2 through 7 of chapter 5.
00:01:04.805 --> 00:01:27.727
The question is in the book of Song of Solomon, are verses chapter 5, 2 through 7 a dream, because it starts with I slept and he said he's looking up Constable's notes, which, if you're familiar with Dr Tom Constable, one of my professors from Dallas Seminary, he says it's a dream?
00:01:27.746 --> 00:01:28.186
What say ye Muhammad?
00:01:28.186 --> 00:01:31.293
Maybe it doesn't matter, to me it doesn't matter.
00:01:31.313 --> 00:01:31.634
It can be.
00:01:31.634 --> 00:01:41.290
One of my favorite answers in seminary was could be, could be, could be, and then I would get so angry because I would be like, no, just tell me the answer.
00:01:41.290 --> 00:01:42.986
And he'd be like could be.
00:01:44.100 --> 00:01:46.650
I slept, but my heart was awake, yeah.
00:01:47.439 --> 00:01:48.641
And the slept in the Hebrew.
00:01:48.641 --> 00:01:52.968
When I looked it up, it also could mean I laid down and my heart was awake.
00:01:52.968 --> 00:01:54.210
It's the same word.
00:01:55.093 --> 00:01:56.013
Well, that's frustrating.
00:01:56.194 --> 00:01:57.923
Yeah, it doesn't matter.
00:01:57.923 --> 00:01:59.567
But why doesn't it matter it?
00:01:59.587 --> 00:02:00.230
doesn't change anything.
00:02:00.230 --> 00:02:00.951
Explain yourself.
00:02:00.951 --> 00:02:03.025
You're saying the Bible doesn't matter.
00:02:03.045 --> 00:02:14.808
No, no, no, it doesn't matter whether she was awake or she's dreaming it, because what happens in the actual thing, in the actual text, that's what matters.
00:02:16.985 --> 00:02:20.387
To be fair, this is a poem, it's a song.
00:02:21.751 --> 00:02:23.346
That's like asking the question.
00:02:23.346 --> 00:02:27.626
The thing that I brought up is when the guards beat her up.
00:02:27.626 --> 00:02:29.550
Was that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:02:29.691 --> 00:02:31.081
it doesn't matter that's not the point.
00:02:31.081 --> 00:02:32.688
It could have been corrupt guards.
00:02:32.688 --> 00:02:36.063
Yes, they were getting paid off, but the important thing is she got beat down.
00:02:36.085 --> 00:02:43.187
It was painful yeah, or or they thought she was a prostitute or a virgin sneaking around out of her dad's house, and then then they did do good.
00:02:43.228 --> 00:02:45.111
Who knows, that doesn't matter, it doesn't matter.
00:02:45.111 --> 00:02:48.669
It doesn't matter Like, stop worrying about, like the policeman.
00:02:48.889 --> 00:02:49.070
Yeah.
00:02:49.420 --> 00:02:50.944
Is this a police brutality verse?
00:02:50.944 --> 00:02:51.606
No, it's not.
00:02:51.806 --> 00:02:52.729
No no.
00:02:53.110 --> 00:02:53.551
Okay so.
00:02:54.401 --> 00:02:58.430
Okay, but you know, here's my what is your.
00:02:58.430 --> 00:02:59.772
I slept, but my heart was awake.
00:02:59.772 --> 00:03:05.143
This verse is in there for a reason first is in there for a reason.
00:03:05.162 --> 00:03:06.185
What are you supposed to get from that?
00:03:06.185 --> 00:03:06.847
I what I get from that.
00:03:06.847 --> 00:03:08.431
The biggest thing is that something in her heart is troubled.
00:03:08.431 --> 00:03:23.362
And then here comes the husband knocking on the door, and then, even after he knocks on the door, for some reason, she's still not about it right and it takes him showing her that he cares about her through what he does and he leaves murr on the doorknob.
00:03:24.004 --> 00:03:26.925
And that is what gets her to say my heart is thrilled within me.
00:03:26.925 --> 00:03:30.259
So there's this back and forth that she has within herself.
00:03:30.259 --> 00:03:34.599
That's why later she says my soul failed me because she knew she should have gotten up.
00:03:34.599 --> 00:03:40.899
And then later, when her friends ask her, hey, are you sure like you even want this guy she's?
00:03:40.899 --> 00:03:45.110
She goes off and says among ten thousands there is not another for me.
00:03:46.423 --> 00:03:55.868
So I think that's the big point and I think the art here is he's trying to convey she can't sleep because there's something wrong.
00:03:55.868 --> 00:04:18.567
So the poem, the song, brings out I was sleeping, but my heart was awake you know, like kind of a you know you get into the song right and like she's really feeling the pain and the pangs of that rage of sorrow, wow, yeah, thanks for really making that come alive for us.
00:04:18.779 --> 00:04:20.985
Listen, I think what happens for a lot of us is.
00:04:21.005 --> 00:04:23.331
We don't understand the poetry emotion here.
00:04:23.331 --> 00:04:25.387
She's sleeping, but awake.
00:04:25.387 --> 00:04:39.379
She can't sleep because there's something not right and a sound my beloved is knocking, saying open to me my sister, my love, my dove, my perfect one for my head is what would do my locks with the drops of the night.
00:04:39.379 --> 00:04:51.600
I love that because he's like I'm finally home after a long days of work and I, like you, thought he was out working or something and probably had said he would be at home a certain time but didn't make it.
00:04:51.600 --> 00:04:55.529
And she's fired up, pissed off about it, and she's like you're gonna pay for that.
00:04:55.529 --> 00:04:59.184
Yeah, I'm not moving, I'm not gonna get my feet dirty for you.
00:04:59.184 --> 00:04:59.665
That's right.
00:04:59.665 --> 00:05:03.391
Have you ever had your wife not get her feet dirty for you?
00:05:06.360 --> 00:05:16.449
You know what my wife loves to serve me and get her feet dirty for me, and I cannot recall a time right now when she refused, that that's a good answer.
00:05:16.470 --> 00:05:17.610
That was a really good answer.
00:05:17.990 --> 00:05:19.432
Yeah, well done.
00:05:19.471 --> 00:05:23.716
Yeah, I think we've all experienced not wanting to get up.
00:05:23.716 --> 00:05:41.526
I know none of you have done this, but I've of some other guys that, like when the baby would start crying, you just fake sleeping and then like, jab an elbow back and then like, oh, you're like rolling over and sleep and then she has to get up and go do it because that's, you know, it's like her job or something.
00:05:41.646 --> 00:05:42.629
Can I share something?
00:05:42.629 --> 00:05:57.615
Actually Okay so confession One of my biggest kind of like pet peeves in marriage would be when it's bedtime, it's time to go to sleep and I've brushed my teeth, taken a shower.
00:05:57.615 --> 00:06:13.403
I'm like I'm so tired, I plug my phone in, everything's just kind of ready, and then I lay down and I'm like my head hits the pillow and you're at that moment yeah, my wife would say can you get me a glass of water?
00:06:14.706 --> 00:06:17.552
and while you're up, can you find my charger?
00:06:17.552 --> 00:06:18.853
I thought, and can you?
00:06:18.853 --> 00:06:28.925
You know, and it's like all these things where I'm like man, I was literally just in the other room you know, if you would have just asked me a minute ago, right, but you waited until I'm in.
00:06:28.925 --> 00:06:31.973
That, like bliss of, I'm about to fall asleep, you know.
00:06:32.394 --> 00:06:32.535
Yeah.
00:06:32.620 --> 00:06:36.769
And I would get so annoyed and there would be times where you know I'd be like just die to yourself, just do it.
00:06:37.300 --> 00:06:39.762
And then there'd be other times where, like no, you're standing my ground.
00:06:39.762 --> 00:06:40.264
That that's right.
00:06:40.264 --> 00:06:42.326
You get your charger.
00:06:42.386 --> 00:06:43.286
Get your charger.
00:06:43.547 --> 00:06:55.899
Just you know, you're, just, you're up, you're not even tired, you're like on your phone, look at it, you know, and but so but then you know I was like you know what I?
00:06:55.920 --> 00:07:01.105
I made a decision a while back where I didn't like that, the times where I stood, my and I was like, no, I'm not going to you serve.
00:07:01.105 --> 00:07:03.668
I want to have this be a way that I love and serve and bless my wife.
00:07:03.668 --> 00:07:11.817
So I made a commitment, I told her, I said no matter what, no matter how tired I am, what it is, I'm always going to say yes.
00:07:11.817 --> 00:07:19.247
If you ask me for something and it's going to take the fight out of my head of like, do I do it or do I say it, it's just, my answer is always yes.
00:07:25.459 --> 00:07:26.923
And I actually say, as you wish, princess bride, yeah, I do the same thing.
00:07:26.942 --> 00:07:29.028
So I just say, as you wish, and now, no matter what, just a little bit, wow, I always do it, and um.
00:07:29.028 --> 00:07:32.584
And so I think she felt loved and blessed by that and also she's a little bit more conscious.
00:07:32.584 --> 00:07:36.490
She's like I know he's gonna say yes I don't want to put that, I'm just gonna do it myself sometimes and it's.
00:07:36.490 --> 00:07:38.156
It's made the whole thing.
00:07:38.276 --> 00:07:46.053
It's completely removed that pet peeve from our marriage oh, wow and I when say yes, she feels blessed by it and I get to love and serve her.
00:07:46.053 --> 00:07:47.846
And there's other times where she goes.
00:07:47.846 --> 00:07:48.180
You know what?
00:07:48.180 --> 00:07:49.264
I'm not going to have him do that.
00:07:49.264 --> 00:07:49.927
I'm going to do it myself.
00:07:50.067 --> 00:07:50.548
Well, there you go.
00:07:50.548 --> 00:07:51.009
Look at that.
00:07:51.151 --> 00:07:51.793
It's been a blessing.
00:07:51.973 --> 00:07:54.064
Yeah, I thought you were going to say, and she never asked again.
00:07:55.148 --> 00:08:06.579
No, she still.
00:08:06.579 --> 00:08:08.285
She knows that yes, now, and so she utilizes that.
00:08:08.305 --> 00:08:08.646
But she doesn't.
00:08:08.646 --> 00:08:19.552
She doesn't actually ask as much as she used to, just knowing, yeah, yeah, I, I think, uh, usually, um, I, there's a light that's left on that she senses, and then, when I'm about to go to bed, I'll, I am now tasked to go get it.
00:08:19.552 --> 00:08:24.937
I should probably do a better job of being very joyful about that, as you wish, as you wish.
00:08:25.059 --> 00:08:48.749
And the other thing I need to be better joyful at is when I'm about to pass out, have a sleep, and that's the time she decides to bring up a really bro, difficult conversation yes, yes it's like the moment where, like you know the whole time, we could add yeah, there there is like 30, 40 minutes of like us in the same room but, nothing was brought up about this particular topic, and then she waits until I'm almost.
00:08:48.749 --> 00:08:55.164
It's like hey, I've been thinking and I'm like oh my, what happened to the 45 minutes before this moment right now?
00:08:55.225 --> 00:08:55.868
What's going on?
00:08:55.868 --> 00:08:57.606
You've experienced that All the time.
00:08:58.403 --> 00:08:59.005
It's a challenge.
00:08:59.005 --> 00:09:01.966
I definitely can understand this woman.
00:09:02.207 --> 00:09:02.609
As you wish.
00:09:02.609 --> 00:09:03.484
As you wish.
00:09:05.841 --> 00:09:08.096
As you, as you wish, as you wish, yeah.
00:09:08.116 --> 00:09:08.339
As you wish.
00:09:08.339 --> 00:09:13.428
Which is funny, because for her it's like man I don't want to have sex with you right now but for the guy it's like man.
00:09:13.428 --> 00:09:14.639
I don't want to talk about this right now.
00:09:14.639 --> 00:09:16.044
It's the complete opposite, right?
00:09:16.044 --> 00:09:16.826
That is a great point.
00:09:16.826 --> 00:09:17.629
I never thought about that.
00:09:18.620 --> 00:09:19.461
That is dang it.
00:09:19.461 --> 00:09:20.543
Wow, that's wild.
00:09:20.563 --> 00:09:20.964
I missed it.
00:09:21.004 --> 00:09:22.206
That is like totally.
00:09:22.746 --> 00:09:23.989
That's it, yeah.
00:09:24.889 --> 00:09:29.160
Yeah, wow, I would have never thought Like.
00:09:29.160 --> 00:09:30.667
That just brings it all together for me?
00:09:30.687 --> 00:09:31.028
Yeah, it does.
00:09:31.320 --> 00:09:33.365
Like women don't want to have sex.
00:09:33.365 --> 00:09:34.529
Like at the last second.
00:09:34.529 --> 00:09:39.692
Yep, they're thinking why didn't you not prepare this, talk about it, initiate?
00:09:39.692 --> 00:09:42.342
You're waiting until this very second when I'm about to pass out.
00:09:42.342 --> 00:09:47.750
And for women, they start conversations when a man is about to pass out Yep.
00:09:49.373 --> 00:09:56.607
That's blew my mind, yep Right there, and that's why, if each person in the couple just takes on the mindset of as you wish.
00:09:56.729 --> 00:09:59.566
Everybody wins, everybody wins, everybody wins.
00:09:59.566 --> 00:10:05.817
Well, that's because 1 Corinthians 7.3, rend the affection due to one another.
00:10:05.817 --> 00:10:09.330
There you go, or as the ESV says, just give up the conjugal rights.
00:10:09.330 --> 00:10:12.927
Just right to it, right to it man.
00:10:13.059 --> 00:10:16.770
Okay so let's talk through then his response.
00:10:16.770 --> 00:10:22.466
I really love the way you brought this up on Sunday with, like my beloved put his hand to the latch and my heart was thrilled within me.
00:10:22.466 --> 00:10:27.404
I rose to open to my beloved Like how long did it take her to get to the door?
00:10:27.404 --> 00:10:28.166
That's the question.
00:10:28.166 --> 00:10:37.735
Like she could have been like hey, I'm so glad you're here, but she I don't know if the bolt took a while to and then gets it on and then she opens the door and she doesn't know where he is.
00:10:37.735 --> 00:10:44.390
Yeah, and that's she said.
00:10:44.390 --> 00:10:48.426
My soul failed me when he spoke, meaning she could have spoken up Yep.
00:10:49.067 --> 00:10:49.909
But she didn't.
00:10:49.909 --> 00:10:51.503
What do you think that was about?
00:10:52.326 --> 00:10:54.552
She's just regretting it, she's just like dang it.
00:10:54.552 --> 00:10:56.326
You know, I took too long to get to the door.
00:10:56.326 --> 00:11:01.787
I mean she sees him putting his hand through the latch with Murr.
00:11:01.787 --> 00:11:06.394
So she could have right there been like oh man, like come on in, you know whatever.
00:11:06.394 --> 00:11:11.135
So there are just so many times where she could have said something and she doesn't.
00:11:11.620 --> 00:11:12.625
Yeah, I love what you said.
00:11:12.625 --> 00:11:15.107
On Sunday they kept missing each other.
00:11:15.107 --> 00:11:23.111
I think that's a real difficult part of relationship when you keep missing one another, yep.
00:11:23.111 --> 00:11:28.448
Okay, then transition to the Watchmen.
00:11:28.448 --> 00:11:29.091
The Watchmen found.
00:11:29.091 --> 00:11:34.464
I know it's not about police brutality or it's not about any of that, but what do you think that the point is?
00:11:34.464 --> 00:11:39.571
She gets there's barriers, she gets hurt Yep, what is it?
00:11:39.740 --> 00:11:41.062
There's consequences to your actions.
00:11:41.159 --> 00:11:45.871
There's consequences to not reaching out.
00:11:47.985 --> 00:11:58.110
Yeah, because he did all the right things, he was sweet, he used good words, he showed her a gift, he waited for a little bit.
00:11:58.110 --> 00:12:07.115
So it's just like when your spouse pursues you in all the right ways and you don't respond, there's going to be some sort of internal turmoil probably.
00:12:08.725 --> 00:12:14.918
One of the things we talk about is that this passage of Scripture is interpreted as allegory, literal or typology.
00:12:14.918 --> 00:12:19.636
The one thing I thought was interesting, because you're not going to find this about Jesus anywhere.
00:12:19.636 --> 00:12:21.350
I sought him, but I didn't find him.
00:12:21.390 --> 00:12:25.154
That's exactly right, I was like what do you do with that?
00:12:25.154 --> 00:12:27.192
I called him, but he gave no answer.
00:12:27.192 --> 00:12:33.650
Seek and you will find, clearly is what the scripture says.
00:12:33.650 --> 00:12:37.116
Uh, and I don't want to.
00:12:37.116 --> 00:12:43.657
Sometimes it may feel like he's not answering, but I I I thought that was an interesting piece right here.
00:12:43.657 --> 00:12:44.946
As the alec, what?
00:12:44.946 --> 00:12:49.957
How do people who interpret this allegorically, how do you reconcile?
00:12:49.957 --> 00:12:51.912
I sought him, but didn't find him.
00:12:51.912 --> 00:12:53.551
Now ultimately she does.
00:12:53.751 --> 00:12:53.871
Yeah.
00:12:54.186 --> 00:12:56.538
But she has to be like hey, call the friends.
00:12:56.538 --> 00:12:57.202
Have you seen him?
00:12:57.323 --> 00:12:57.485
Yeah.
00:12:58.389 --> 00:12:59.111
I just don't know.
00:12:59.111 --> 00:13:05.030
Maybe that's like, if you're having a hard time with God, get the church around you to rally around prayer.
00:13:05.030 --> 00:13:10.691
But, man, it seems like that that's a miss on the allegorical interpretation.
00:13:11.052 --> 00:13:12.086
Maybe it could be.
00:13:12.086 --> 00:13:16.700
I mean, like Jeremiah, if you seek me with your whole heart, so maybe she wasn't seeking with her whole heart.
00:13:17.063 --> 00:13:17.184
Yeah.
00:13:18.125 --> 00:13:19.711
Or this isn't supposed to point to that.
00:13:19.871 --> 00:13:20.052
Right.
00:13:20.232 --> 00:13:21.869
Or not at all, or like sometimes.
00:13:21.869 --> 00:13:27.951
In the Old Testament it says like you will seek me or you will call out to me, but I will not answer you right, like that's the thing.
00:13:27.991 --> 00:13:31.075
Right, yeah, that's what the wicked now right.
00:13:31.695 --> 00:13:46.107
So that's allegory, I can be interpreted right, I guess like hey, if you, if you forsake him enough, he gives you up to your own ways, romans one, and then if you try to seek him, he cannot be found in that moment or whatever, but if you seek him enough, even if you're the wicked, he will answer, which which he does.
00:13:46.107 --> 00:13:47.470
Yeah, so that's how, I don't know.
00:13:47.470 --> 00:13:51.975
That's the most I can do, she's okay, that's good.
00:13:52.475 --> 00:13:55.438
Um, hon, what else did you get out of this text here?
00:13:55.438 --> 00:13:59.410
Um, I like how they bring up the, the community.
00:13:59.410 --> 00:13:59.831
What is your?
00:13:59.831 --> 00:14:00.533
They go.
00:14:00.533 --> 00:14:04.188
She says hey, daughters, jerusalem, you see him yeah let him know I'm sick with love.
00:14:04.188 --> 00:14:07.176
And then the other's like what do you mean?
00:14:07.176 --> 00:14:07.865
You're sick with love.
00:14:07.865 --> 00:14:09.994
What is your beloved more than another beloved?
00:14:09.994 --> 00:14:11.745
Oh, most beautiful among women.
00:14:11.745 --> 00:14:13.211
You can have anybody you want.
00:14:13.211 --> 00:14:15.152
Where do you think she's going with that?
00:14:16.686 --> 00:14:19.134
The person asking the question or her answer.
00:14:19.144 --> 00:14:22.673
The others, the others people, I guess daughters of Jerusalem.
00:14:25.129 --> 00:14:30.270
Yeah, you don't get an explanation of their intentions here.
00:14:30.270 --> 00:14:37.676
Are they trying to slam, are they being like, what's so great about this guy?
00:14:37.676 --> 00:14:40.573
Or are they trying to draw out and remind her?
00:14:40.573 --> 00:14:43.113
So which way did you go with that, mo?
00:14:43.666 --> 00:14:44.591
Draw out and remind her yeah.
00:14:44.591 --> 00:14:48.013
Because it sounds like what is your beloved?
00:14:48.033 --> 00:14:51.225
more this guy you're into.
00:14:51.225 --> 00:14:51.888
He's not that great like.
00:14:51.888 --> 00:14:54.594
Move on you know, but um throughout the song.
00:14:54.594 --> 00:14:55.937
The others are really like.
00:14:55.937 --> 00:15:01.986
They're really more of like a positive voice right, yeah and um it's, it's kind of a mix, like they're.
00:15:01.986 --> 00:15:19.054
They're into the relationship and supportive of it, but also they're listening to the relationship and taking advice from it, and so it seems more like genuine curiosity and trying to draw out like, okay, remember again or tell us again why this person is special to you um and which she does.
00:15:19.134 --> 00:15:30.927
So, um, I think that's an important role for um in terms of relationship, you can, you can go um, you know, uh, uh, like a dating relationship relationship, or you can go to your relationship with Christ.
00:15:30.927 --> 00:15:37.672
But the role of the church in each of those things is to like draw out and remind you what is it about this person that has drawn you to them?
00:15:37.893 --> 00:15:38.715
Is it good Is?
00:15:38.794 --> 00:15:42.812
it worthy, is it you know something in terms of a dating relationship?
00:15:42.812 --> 00:15:43.173
You know?
00:15:43.173 --> 00:15:45.366
Hey, tell me again, why is it that you're into this person?
00:15:45.366 --> 00:15:46.489
Is it that they love Christ?
00:15:46.489 --> 00:15:47.792
Is it that they're a godly person?
00:15:47.792 --> 00:15:58.095
Or, hey, remember again why you followed Jesus in the first place, like what was it about him that you know brought you in, that drew you in?
00:15:58.095 --> 00:16:00.720
And remember again, you know your desire for Jesus.
00:16:00.720 --> 00:16:02.966
So I think it works both those ways, yeah.
00:16:03.167 --> 00:16:03.706
That is good.
00:16:03.706 --> 00:16:16.316
I also, you know, when I think of this makes me think of Revelation, because it talks about his arms, like Rod's ivory Now granted, in Revelation it's like he's bronzed, yeah, so, so different.
00:16:16.316 --> 00:16:26.182
But then also, like the Church of Ephesus lost their first love, like you have all the right doctrine, all the right whatever, and yet you're not, you have no love for me.
00:16:26.182 --> 00:16:40.697
So I kind of appreciated that aspect, that a conflict, because there's always pointing towards Christ and the church, right, because of Ephesians 5 makes every marriage about Christ and the church.
00:16:40.697 --> 00:16:56.932
And so I do think there is something there of like when she reminds him, it's like, hey, you are classy, you are strong, you're protective, you've got it all taken care of and this is my beloved and this is my friend.
00:16:57.493 --> 00:17:00.054
I thought that was a sweet way to kind of land the plane.